Weirdest thread I've seen all day. You say she has a good head so then why are you questioning her confidence in this man? Just be open and honest, listen to both your heart and your mind, and it is hard for things to go too wrong. You've made a judgement based on seeing him once.
If you want to date this woman, pursue that goal. But the fact that it concerns you and you have to ask this question says to me, pretty strongly, that you personally shouldn't date this woman. What matters is what you and the woman think about this, not what we do.
- Plus she's going to change a lot over the next couple years.
- You guys either have never been with a girl or haven't dated much.
- Older women, because of their confidence and experience, also make better lovers.
- With that man hanging around a woman.
Are you two happy with the relationship? This must worry you for some reason, but it shouldn't. Are you sure you want to delete this answer? How do I know he likes me?
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Why all the negativity about him? We're awesome because we're confident, fun and know ourselves pretty well and are comfortable in our own skin. Don't go fishing subconsciously or not for reasons to not go for it.
My stepdad is very strict. Autism as an excuse for poor behavior? Either you're into them or you're not.
She needs to be dating someone more in her maturity bracket. Why don't you ask her our first and start dating and then see if you two are compatible? But if you like her, blogging stop judging her and yourself for your dating choices.
If you re 26 would you date a 20 year old
All situations are different, depending on the people in it. It's not that it's not okay to date them, I'm just not into them. You and I most likely have virtually identical life experiences and overall approaches to the world. The genders are, to me, irrelevant.
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He's not concerned about the difference at all. Finally I asked her how old are you? At that point my mom hated him and told me I had to get an abortion. That age gap itself is fine.
They are both grown ups in this case. You fall in love with whom you fall in love with. If you're thoughtful and mature and your are compatible, great, have a good time. If you're uncomfortable with the age difference, don't date this person. To celebrate, scan some cats or help fund Mefi!
This does not seem to be the case here. Since you are asking, and given the words you chose, she is too old for you. She might chose to make this a non-issue for you. That ordeal drove me away from her and right to Lance.
Wake up mom and back away or your going to lose your daughter. Let people deal, it's not a big problem unless you make it a big problem. Also, dating advice I'd just like to request that you and society as a whole work super-hard to unpack yourselves of this notion. Most people assume we are roughly the same age because we are!
19 year old dating a 26 year old
And maybe if I got to know them I would change my mind, but just from looking at them, I can appreciate a good looking year old, but I am just not attracted to them. My sister-in-law and my ex-sister-in-law are both five or six years older than my brother, and I don't think either relationship has had, or had, any issues relating to their age difference. In other words, either a five year age difference between consenting adults is creepy or it isn't.
But even if it was, that doesn't mean it wouldn't have been worth it. And they had data to back up something women being awesome! What says more about you is the fact that you would ask this question. Older women are awesome because we're well established, are independent, have careers, cool interests and do fun stuff. My fiance reminded me that we share the same cultural touch points.
Or you could realize you're being ridiculous and ask this one out now. Maybe I should not be letting my feeling out. So if we were to walk in and see her working there should we start with all these negatives about her? They got married two weeks ago.
- Do not let people like this drag you down to their level.
- Is that really who you want to believe?
- Well if you're not using her for sex, then that's always a good thing.
- Maybe he'll be the one for her, maybe not.
If you raised her right and she has healthy ideas about men and relationships then she will be fine. Whomever started that cougar and milf shit should die in a fire. Gwyneth Paltrow is five years older than Chris Martin. As far as I'm concerned it's fine. You are making a judgement based on looking at a person.